While many Hong Kong single women are complaining that some HK men tend to seek their companions on the Mainland, it is time for them to learn the reasons behind the phenomenon. After watching a news programme, I realize more about why many gentlemen are stepping back from Hong Kong ladies.
First of all, the females in the city are becoming more and more materialistic. This may not be the responsibility of them entirely, as money has always been the major concern of our society. From the programme, a gentleman interviewed said he was asked, ‘How much is your monthly income?’ before having any deep conversation when first introduced to a lady. Instead of focusing on each other’s hobbies and personalities, many ladies nowadays just want to marry wealthy and eminent guys. They don’t even bother to unveil their greediness. This scares the men away! Who would like to marry someone who cares about money only?
Moreover, men are not as tough as they look like. They desire to be loved and cared for. At present, many HK females are labeled as ‘Kong-girls’. People describe them as girls who are selfish, money-oriented and love buying high-priced bags. We even often see Kong-girls shouting at their boyfriends furiously on the streets, which is so insulting from the men’s point of view. Actually, men who are busy working in their offices hate comforting girlfriends who get angry about trivial things. They want to be the ones to be comforted. Ladies who always yell about nothing are very annoying to them.
Rather than asking for bags and phone calls, there are more preferable ways that help HK ladies to catch men’s eyes and grasp their hearts.
For those who are seeking love, they should be considerate to others. They don’t know who their true love is, so they should be friendly to everyone around. Never be a Kong-girl who is rude and self-conceited. Money doesn’t bring long lasting happiness, but love does. Always give a hand to the ones who are in difficulties. This is the only way to earn the goodwill of the opposite sex and a relationship is more likely to develop.
As for those ladies who have their partners, they could rely on their Mr. Right more, especially on small things, such as, asking them to kill cockroaches and move cupboards, etc. The ladies could also praise them to make them feel proud. They will then think that they are very capable of protecting their girlfriends. The relationship will be more harmonious this way.
Snow-white and Cinderella marry their princes because they love and respect each other. Dating and marriage are not businesses. Let’s not materialize the relationship. Remember, only true love counts.