Dear Caroline
How are you? Thank you for sending me your letter and trusting me. I knew that sometimes you find it difficult to talk with your parents because they don’t understand you. Therefore, in this letter, I am going to give you some pieces of advice for helping you to solve your problems.
I knew that you think your parents is unfair to you. Why don’t you try leaving the scene first to get away from your mom, and calm yourself down? It’s a good way and it’s important as when you calm down, you can think in your mom’s view and think about the reason she would do such things to you. For example, when your mom says that you cannot go to a safe party only because you got bad results, you can firstly leave the place you argued with her such as the living room, then go to a place that no one will disturb you to calm down. When you calm down, you can think about why mom would not let you go to the party. After calming yourself down, you may go for your mom again and talk with her. Maybe there will be a better solution which is “win-win” after the communication between you and your mom!
I also knew that you think your parents don’t understand you. I suggest you chat with them more because it is important that both you and your parents know and understand each other more. When you express more, your parents will more understand about you. For example, when your family members are sitting on the sofa, watching TV, feel free to communicate with them as this can further the sense of being in your family.
Keep going! You can try my advice on daily life!
In conclusion, why don’t you try calming down yourself first and communicating more with your family? Hope you can talk with your parents in peace and have a warm family!
Yours
Agony aunt