I believe every mother and father has set many goals for their own selves to achieve when they give birth to their new-comer in the family. Parents always try their best to provide a good environment for their children. They care for and love their children in no time, no where! However, there is always a gap between the two generations. Furthermore, adults’ misconceptions over teenagers’ always cause argument.
I think the biggest misconception of adults about teenagers today is that, parents think they understand their ‘little’ kids. However, it’s not the case.
Firstly, parents think they understand their children’s feelings by using notorious phrase, “We were young once”. This evil mind has turned down many teenagers’ plans and thoughts. Moreover, it drives many parents to ignore and dismiss their teens’ feeling.
Secondly, adults tend to think that teenagers are not hard-working enough and only look for enjoyment. However, they only see the little piece of cake. Every teenager has their dreams and goals. They try hard to achieve it and succeed. They have shown their effort over different tasks. The parents just know too little about their loved ones.
What’s more, they never understand teenagers’ challenges on relationships and stress. Problem relationships are really a horrible disaster for teens. Every day, they have to deal with friends, families and lovers. It is nothing fun. Stress from tests and homework adds much burden to them, too while the untouchable hopes from parents even further cause teenagers’ pressure to double.
All misconceptions, however, are preventable. If parents have communicated well with their children, there is no chance for misconception to arise. Parents should trust their kids and allow them to express their feelings and views. They should know their children well, not only focus on their school results but their whole beings. Moreover, teenagers should express their thoughts and explain everything to their parents.
I believe adults’ misconceptions towards teenagers can be an evil. Yet, it is a solvable problem if both sides take one step forward and pay more attention to each other.